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Small Towns and Villages in Southern England

Hi ArtnBarb
Some thoughts, mostly from visits 10-25 years ago
Exeter has a very pleasant central area around the cathedral, and certainly has charm, though not likely to be overrun with tourists.
Bath vs. Bristol. Bristol is the functioning city, with stronger nightlife / mainstream shopping and enough history. Bath tends to get much more of the fancier small shops and has a much higher concentration of history. The baths seem to have got universal praise since the big outfitting about a decade ago. Do wear comfortable & well-supported shoes and take a break from walking as those cobbles start to hurt after a while. Bristolians also seem to also have a rather distinctive sense of humour that might seem a bit direct.
Bournemouth. A slightly odd place. Historically a major coastal resort with very long & good sandy beaches, and a nice touch with the gardens running between the town and the beach, housing perhaps the most well-known 'crazy golf' course in the UK, with carpet covering rather than bare concrete. If you go to Bournemouth, then I'd recommend this as a fun/silly thing to do, that you may find comes up in conversation with any Brits you mention Bournemouth to. Very tame squirrels/birds in the park, presumably from the food they get given. You can walk miles along wide tarmac/paved paths along the coast (or of course on the sand). Bournemouth town centre suffers a bit from the summer tourist trade and I'd definitely avoid the school summer holidays.
New Forest is very extensive and yes I'd recommend a drive through, or even perhaps a couple of nights on one of the camp sites. Very professionally run (for good or bad) and I have a rather juvenile memory of toilet paper in the communal toilets having 'HM government' printed on it, which rather appealed to a juvenile mind! So much of the UK was historically quite densely wooded, so it gives a feel for how the country might have looked before the massive population growth. There is very good mushroom hunting, though that would be more Sept/Oct and I understand their are semi-professional foragers.
Arundel / Arundel Castle both good, but for a special one-off, the first match played by visiting cricket teams is traditionally here, against the Duchess of Norfolk's XI (yes Norfolk is nowhere near, that's how those hereditary titles go sometimes). The setting is idyllic, and don't worry about not understanding the game. The art of watching cricket involves a healthy sized picnic of all the stuff you like, some drinks you like, a hat (for rain or sun!) and just taking in the scene. I suppose the closest analogy is the pre-match parking lot food, drink and chat at NFL games (but much smaller crowds and much more scenic). Here's the fixture list with 1st May being the game I referred to. The others are possibilities of course, but will not attract anywhere near as many people.
http://cricketatarundelcastle.co.uk/fixtures_and_results.html On this subject, if strolling around, don't be afraid to stop for half an hour to watch a cricket game. Some of the village settings are wonderful and quite photogenic. Again the setting can make such a game (most common on Saturday or Sunday) a perfect picnic spot and they'll be happily surprised at someone bothering to stop and watch, so just stroll around outside the boundary rope and just avoid walking past the big white 'sightscreens' when someone is bowling.
Sussex. I lived down here for a while and it's good plenty of charm, plus a major draw in Brighton, but also places like Horsham, with a pleasing centre, despite the best efforts of the local Insurance company (who paid for a church to be moved, brick by brick, stone by stone, to fit their plans). Worth seeing if 'Random Hall' is still going, it's a few miles outside of Horsham but had great history and oodles or quirkiness (I used to stay and eat here with work a few years ago). I posted on another thread about Lewes and surrounds. In addition, Brighton is a big draw, and a simple walk along the pier can be good if a little noisy. The Lanes are the small fancy tourist shops, but do find the North Laines which I describe as the 'locals' touristy shops - lots of quirly stuff from fine cheeses to boomerang shop, 2nd hand music to arts and crafts. I would often spend and hour or two winding my way through them on the way home from the town centre on a Saturday. The beach is stony, but extensive.

For bases, I'd be tempted to keep it simple and look for a base fairly central within a county and treat anywhere in that county as a daytrip option. They are all different shapes but it might make planning easy if you can focus solely within the county.

regards
Ian
 
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Ian has posted while I was writing this and I agree with all he has said. The following are my thoughts...

It’s so long since I was in Bridport that I’ll leave others to cover this. The New Forest would repay a day exploring and there are some nice walks here to. Lots of ideas here:
http://www.thenewforest.co.uk/walking/routes.aspx
I’d hardly describe Bristol as ‘charming’. It isn’t as attractive as Bath with its Georgian architecture but there are some interesting sights.
The SS Great Britain
http://www.ssgreatbritain.org/
The Red Lodge Museum
https://www.bristolmuseums.org.uk/red-lodge-museum/
If you like churches, the St Mary Redcliffe is splendid
http://visitbristol.co.uk/things-to-do/st-mary-redcliffe-church-p25901

Bournemouth is an upmarket seaside town beloved of the retired, with miles of golden sand and some lovely gardens. It depends what your criteria are, but it would hardly be a priority for me...

Winchester and Salisbury are both worth visiting. They are both attractive towns and the cathedrals are lovely. The cathedral tours in Winchester, particularly the crypt tour (as long as it isn’t flooded) are worth doing and are included in the entry fee.
http://www.winchester-cathedral.org.uk/whats-on/guided-tours/


Kent and Sussex You could easily fill a week based somewhere in this area. These are just a few suggestions...
Winchelsea is close to Rye and the two make a good day out. It is less well known than its larger neighbour and doesn’t get as many visitors.
http://www.winchelsea.net/
They are on the edge of Romney Marsh with its history of smugglers.
You might enjoy the Mapp and Lucia stories written by E F Benson which are based on Rye and a wicked depiction of village politics and power struggles between the two leading ladies.

Canterbury with its wonderful cathedral is also a popular tourist destination and the town is attractive to walk round.
http://wasleys.org.uk/eleanor/churches/england/south/canterbury/index.html

There is also Hever Castle, the childhood home of Anne Boleyn. The gardens are wonderful and well worth allowing plenty of time to explore.
http://wasleys.org.uk/eleanor/stately_homes_castles/england/south/hever/index.html
http://wasleys.org.uk/eleanor/gardens/england/south/hever/index.html

There is also Bodiam Castle
https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/bodiam-castle
Knole House,
https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/knole
Ightham Mote
https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/ightham-mote
Chartwell (home of Sir Winston Churchill)
https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/chartwell

If you like gardens, then think about Sheffield Park
https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/sheffield-park-and-garden
Sissinghurst Castle gardens
https://www.nationaltrust.org.uk/sissinghurst-castle-garden
Bedgebury Pinetum
https://bedgeburypinetum.org.uk/your-visit/

There is the Bluebell Railway - a step back into the past with a steam train
http://www.bluebell-railway.co.uk/

There are lots of vineyards to visit - ideas here:
http://www.kentvineyards.com/
Cider producers
https://www.real-cider.co.uk/uk-producers/
as well as lots of small craft breweries (too many to mention but do a google search on county and brewery for ideas).

There are the North Down, South Downs and the Weald (the bit between the two) to explore with many small ‘chocolate box’ villages to explore with thatched cottages - again too many to list.
 
Thank you both for your very detailed information!

I guess my biggest question at this point is: Is there enough to see and do to justify multi-week stays in both the southwest part of the country AND the southeast? Several weeks somewhere around Bridport and then several more weeks further east?

The reason I keep bringing up a stay in the southeastern part is because we once traveled thru Kent and what I saw really made me want to return to explore more.
 
Hi ArtnBarb
There is always stuff to do - you're slow travellers :)

I'd say for Sussex there is as much as any county, and I suspect Eleanor would say the same for Kent. My gut feeling is 2 weeks would be a nice balance of seeing stuff and just taking in the local base you choose, but that would be my suggestion for each county, except perhaps Cornwall, as it's relative remoteness, good walking, beaches etc. might well appeal for an extra week or two if I had the time you have.

It might just be a case of reading county by county and going:
yes
maybe
maybe not
no
 
You are right Ian. I just don't know Sussex very well. Lewes, Alfriston, Brighton, Cuckmere Haven, Beachy Head...
 
I feel so overwhelmed! My original idea was to settle in - really settle in - to one place for several months. Realizing that might not be practical I thought of adding another stop - or two. Now I'm confused and overwhelmed!

In additional to settling in and playing house, I'm hoping that a longer term rental would net some savings - I still have to make this work financially and England is expensive, even with the weakened pound. A rate of $1.25 is better than $1.60, but it's still 25% more than the dollar.
 
"Now I'm confused and overwhelmed!"

This is one of the problems of a forum - you end up with so many ideas you can't begin to take them all in. There is so much to do and see in England, and so many fascinating places just never make it into the guide books. You can never manage to see and do it all. There are still so many parts of England I don't know and I've lived here all my life....

You have the right idea with possibly two stops as that will cut down on time spent travelling each day, which can often be 'unproductive' time. Stick to Dorset (Bridport) and then look for another stop somewhere on the Kent/Sussex border which will get you into all the places in that area which are too far to do easily in a day from Bridport. Lewes is a possible. although Ian may have better ideas.
 
Actually Lewes was my original thought:) It's quite central for many of the places I'd suggest.

For savings, I would expect monthly is where you might be able to get a reasonable discount, though there is a risk that places will already have an odd week or even a weekend booked in the middle of it! Watch out for school holidays that can stymie a desire to have a month in one place, as those weeks are the busiest.
 
Okay, deep breath, starting over, as in my original post: I want to spend about 12 weeks in England next summer. We will arrive in Southampton in mid-May and rent a car. I would like to rent in 2 different locations, with our last few days spent in or near London because we will fly out of London to Italy around August 6. The 12 weeks can be 6 weeks and 6 weeks, or 4 and 8, or 7 and 5. we're flexible. I'm just hoping that renting for 4 weeks minimum will give us the best price.

Dorset is a given. We want to rent in a village so that there are things to do/see/eat and so that we can meet the neighbors, but still have easy access to a variety of sights for frequent daytrips.

For the 2nd part of our stay I am open to either moving east from Dorset to Sussex or Kent, OR I am open to the idea of moving further north - but not as far as Scotland. We love York and Yorkshire, but are there enough day-trip destinations? Lake District? Plenty of great walking I'll bet - and I'll bet we'll need some wellies no matter where we stay!
 
Yorkshire - where to begin ... there's loads and loads to do here as well as plenty of walking. Base yourself centrally and you have access to both the North York Moors and the yorkshire Dales. There are ruined abbeys (Fountains, Bolton, Rievaulx, Byland, Whitby, Mount Grace...), ruined castles (Middleham, Scarborough, Pickering, Helmesley...), stately homes (Castle Howard, Harewood house, Kiplin Hall, Agnes Burton, Scampston Hall, Newby Hall, Markenfield... ) Gardens (as well as the stately homes there is Harlow Carr, Constable Burton, Thorp Perrow arboretum, Parcevall Hall, Middlethorpe Hall...) You have the North York Moors Steam Railway. There are lots of small attractive villages...

Have you thought about Northumberland? This is an area visitors rush through on their way to Scotland. It has some of the best scenery in England with Hadrian's Wall, Keilder Water and Forest, the Cheviot and the coast. Base yourselves in Rothbury or Alnwick. Don't miss Lindisfarne, Holy Island, reached by causeway (observe crossing times as the tide comes in very quickly and foolish car owner often get caught out by the tide). Do a boat trip to the Farne Islands. Stately homes include Alnwick Castle, Bamburgh Castle, Cragside, Wallington, Chillingham, Raby Castle.... There are ruined castles at Warkworth and Norham as well as Belsay Hall. Alnwick Castle has a wonderful garden and there are also gardens at Howick Hall, Whalton Manor, Herterton House

You could also do Durham either on the way north or south - or both. It has a magnificent Norman cathedral and castle (now part of the University but open for tours) which are set high above a loop of the River Wear. Crook Hall gardens are wonderful. And there is also the Durham University Botanic Garden.

Now you really will be going into overload!!
 
artnbarb - I have been following this thread with great interest. All the ideas sound so wonderful! Whatever you finally decide, your summer in England followed by Italy sounds magical to me! I doubt you can go wrong with any of the places suggested by such knowlegeable contributors. I will be eager to hear what you finally decide and read your trip reports!
 
We love York and Yorkshire, but are there enough day-trip destinations?
Brilliant list from Eleanor, to which I'll add the wonderful coast: Bridlington, Filey, Robin Hood's Bay, Scarborough and Flanborough Head. In addition, York is on the London-Edinburgh mainline train route, allowing you to take a day off from driving for an easy trip to Durham, Newcastle, even the charming border town of Berwick on Tweed
 
Somewhere during your stay I would highly recommend a long weekend in the Isle of Wight. Easy and enjoyable bike riding out to the Needles. Island living in Europe. Not quite Island Time of the Caribbean, but things move slower.

Have a great Trip!

BTW - Museums in Portsmouth and Quays are very nice also. Not a small town - but not a big city either.
 
The Isle of Wight is a good suggestion, especially for a long weekend. Don't miss Osborne House and Carisbrooke Castle.

Portsmouth of course has Nelson' Victory as well as Henry VIII's Mary rose. There is also the Roman fort at Portchester with the ruins of the Norman Castle and St Mary's Church.
http://www.silvertraveladvisor.com/review/attraction/151937-review-portchester-roman-fort-and-castle

The church has a small tea room run by the ladies of the church which has very good homemade cakes....
http://www.stmary-portchester.org.uk/about-us/groups-linked-to-st-marys/
 
Hi Art n Barb
Is the thread title still the aim - a Southern England holiday?

I must admit I loved the logistical simplicity of that basic premise. If so then I see no problem with bases of Dorset and Kent/Sussex (e.g. based in/near Lewes). Ok it would be easy to put a strong shout in for Cornwall, Somerset, Gloucestershire, etc. etc. but it would be wrong to talk you out of a 2 base trip as long as you were happy with the odd longer day trip (or even an overnighter - such as Isle of Wight).

Stuff to do? If looking to see a famous sight/site every day, then it would be a bit of a challenge over a 4-6 week period. However if the base location appeals for scenic walks & drives, the odd local event, odd days just relaxing, returning to somewhere you liked earlier that month, etc. then I think you'll be fine.

regards
Ian
 
Thank you all for your continued support and input as well as your continuing patience with me. As stated on another thread, this is the most difficult part of vacation planning for me - deciding where to go and how long to stay in each place. I generally throw lots of ideas out there and somehow things seem to sort themselves out - eventually.

The Isle of Wight is definitely on my list - 2-3 days would be perfect.

We don't want to be on the go all day every day because we'd like to just settle in and try to turn off 'vacation' mode where we strive to see and do as much as possible in the allotted time. Hopefully 2 (or 3) longer stays will give us that opportunity.

Right now my focus is on the counties of Dorset, Somerset, Wiltshire,Hampshire,E/W Sussex, Kent and Surrey. I'm not sure how or when I will determine how long to stay in 2 bases to see those counties, but if it turns out we have a few(3-4 weeks) to play with, I'm not opposed to venturing further north. For now I'll focus on the area south of London and research all the gardens, manor houses, stately homes, castles, ancient sites, beautiful drives and charming villages I can find.

Thank you all again!
 
Sounds great and its all coming together too. With the length of time you have, you are right to allow yourselves 'days off' to relax and do nothing. You'll need them!
 
Wow, there's a lot of information here, thank you.

I, too, am planning for next year spring/summer three-month holiday. I think that we will spend a month in Ireland, but "where" for the other two months. I am toying with the idea of staying in the UK but without a car, which complicates planning a bit. We have only stayed in London (several weeks over some years).
 

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